© Dr. Ellen Kreidman
The only way new behavior can become part of you is to practice, see the results, and find out for yourself what a wonderful effect it has on your mate.
Here are 10 Ways to Light His Fire:
1) Tell him how glad you are that he is part of your life, and how lucky you are to have him.
2) Tell him that you love him just the way he is and that you wouldn't trade him for any other man in the world.
3) Don't criticize, evaluate, or give advice of any kind unless he asks for help.
4) Touch my mate every single day - starting today.
5) The next time my mate makes a suggestion, follow it.
6) Ask for what you want. Make it easy for him to meet your needs.
7) Don't send mixed messages. Be honest with what you tell him.
8) Notice his physical appearance and compliment him.
9) Give him a backrub and tell him how special he is to you.
10) Replace your lamp's light bulb with a red bulb and have a night of passion.