♥ For long distance/internet relationships: write a romantic letter or poem letting your mate know exactly how you feel about them and what they mean to you. If you are a girl, sign it with a lipstick kiss and spritz it with your perfume. If you are a guy, well, i wouldn´t suggest the lipstick, but your cologne is nice. Then, either send it along with a video tape of yourself reading it to him, or your voice recorded on a tape. This adds a whole new level of personalization and makes them feel closer to you. - Crystal
♥ Book a hotel room one night. Go to dinner that night. In the middle of dinner excuse yourself and call a friend that knows what you are planning and tell them to go to your hotel room and draw a bubble bath with roses in the tub. Have candles burning all around the bath tub. And the rest is up to you. - Tiffeni
♥ When you know he/she is busy at work and can't get away for lunch/dinner etc. order dinner from their favorite restuarant or send a pizza, and ALWAYS include dessert. Email them a little love note to let them know you care and they are on your mind. - Isabella
♥ For Valentinte's Day my boyfriend sent me an invitation in the mail to have dinner at "Justin's Fine Dining". When I got to his house he opened the door but wouldn't let me in. A few minutes later he came back out with me and we stood there for a few minutes. Next he opened the door for me and we walked in (I was obviously very confused at this point). Standing there in a waitor's apron was his friend. Our "host/waitor" showed us to our table (adorned with two candles and a long-stemmed red rose) in the "restaurant" (a room in Justin's house). There we had our romantic dinner and even a dance. That's only one of the sweet things he's done for me! - Mykel
♥ Proposal idea: Plan a night of just staying in for dinner and movies. When you sit down on the couch to cuddle grab a notebook and ask your significant other to play hangman. Make the secret message you write for them to figure out to say "Will you marry me?" - Michelle
♥ When they are away, go into their room and cover their sheets in chocolate hershy kisses. Then, in the middle of the bed, place a single rose and a heartfelt letter just for them. - Maureen
♥ Make sure you let your loved one know you appreciate them. Take the time to find a card that expresses your care, admiration, and love for them. Ad your own words, and let them know how much they mean to you. Mail it with a tiny amount of your favorite cologne or essential oil, so they think of you and the scent when they read the note. - Mark
♥ It really is the little things that count. Romance doesn't have to involve chocolate, picnics, soft music, beaches, sex, or even a tireless repitition of those 'three magical words'. Romance can be as simple as taking an activity which you both enjoy and doing it together. If you both enjoy reading, I think it is great fun to find a quiet place alone and read out loud together. You could find that it adds a whole new dimension to the characters and plot or you could find yourselves roaring with laughter. Everyone knows a good laugh is always fun. - Stasha
♥ For his birthday send the kids to a babysitter (if you have some) and spend the whole day together at home. Make him/her a nice dinner, rent some romantic movies, and get some good wine and let the day carry you away. -
♥ Leave a note on the front door that leads them to the next note and the next and the next which should lead them to your embrace. Guaranteed results! - Annette
♥ Send your lover 11 roses and tell them to look in the mirror and they will find the 12th and most beautiful rose looking back at them. Makes for happy tears! - Annette
♥ Lay a blanket with a small portion of his favorite meal on the roof top of a secure building. Play his favorite song what ever it may be. Feed him. Let him pick the convrsation topic. Respond with closed answers only. When he is finish eating, lay him back and make love to him. - Adriana
♥ Sit your honey down and proceed to wash her feet. Once this is done give her a full treatment foot massage with scented lotion and the works. The whole time you are doing this be telling her all the reasons you love her, quote love poems to her (Shakespeares sonnets are great), and tell her of your favorite memories with her. Once you are done seal it all with a kiss on each foot. - Jon
♥ Spend the night cuddling and watching movies togther - talk - get close - and making out is fun too! Then say you need to go to teh bathroom and come out in you sexiest teddy or lingerie. Surprise him with a lap dance to his favorite song or the sexiest one you can find, then throw him on the bed and strip him, spray whip cream all over him and lick it off he'll love it, then do anything to persue his fantasies. - Michelle
♥ Record your voice on a disc/tape, telling him/her how much you love him/her. Then slip it into his/her bag just before he/she is leaving on a business trip. You could have some soft romantic tune playing in the background when you're recording your voice. (I just thought of this... I'm gonna try it ASAP!) - Urmila
♥ Guys get her a custum made ring (birthstone or diamond) and set up a weekend getaway together. Decorate the room with at least 2 dozen roses.. roses all over the bed... and next to the hot tub a glass bowl filled with rose petals and 2 sponges with scented soapy water. Wine is chilling when you show up ..next to the wine sliced strawberries and whipped creme. Need I say more? After you arrive pop the wine and give her the ring. She'll never forget it... You either. - Jimmy
♥ If your boyfriend spends the night at your apartment, iron his work clothes and leave a love note with your favorite perfume sprayed lightly on the note and put it in the pocket of his work clothes. now all day long he will be thinking of you! my boyfriend loved it. - Roxie
♥ Write him a post-it memo every morning before he gets up, to tell him how much you love him. Then put it on the wall, from time to time, it will be a unique wall paper. - Kiki
♥ On a posty (preferably a larger one), write "You are looking at the woman who has captured my heart!" then place it on the mirror she'll use in the morning. - Michael
♥ Set the bedroom up with candles, and rose petals all over the room. Have a really nice throw on the floor set up with Champagne, strawberries, whipped cream and all those types of goodies. Have some really romantic music playing in the back ground and let the night just dictate the rest! - CCS
♥ I live in Wisconsinso we have a lot of snow and I have a wooded area in my back yard. My boyfriend and I have always talked about finding time to play in the snow, but never got around to it. So one day on his birthday I blindfolded him, and led him to a snow filled hill, set him in a sled with me, then took his blind fold off as we flew down the hill. then I led him to the woods where I had a sheet tied up to the tree to block the wind, and blankets set down on rocks. I had a thermus of hot chocolate waiting so we could just sit alone and talk. - Andrea
♥ Call him just to tell him how much you love him and how much you miss him. when he gets home have a romantic dinner waiting and be in your sexiest lengerie. Make it a night to remember! - Carol Ann
♥ Secretly rent a hotel room and decorate the bed with rose petals and boxes of chocolates and a white teddy bear. Take your mate to a nice dinner and then to the hotel. When you get there, have them wait in the car while you "check in". You figure out the rest. - HunnyBaby
♥ Warm up a towel in the dryer while they are in the shower. Be waiting with it when they turn off the water. - Janice
♥ My husband works all the time, and I sometimes don't see him before he leaves. He is sometimes to tired to want to talk at night. One morning before he went to work, I took some of his socks and laid them out into a heart shape. Then I took a sock a and made an I. Then another sock and made a heart for Love. Then another sock and made an U. I left it on the floor and when he got up he saw it. He really thought it was sweet, and has even asked, why don't I do that for him anymore. - Carmen
♥ Surprise your mate when they come home from work with their favorite meal, a movie, and a massage. Tell them you missed them and thought of them all day. - Susan
♥ My husband and I really love to massage one another. It's such a nice way to express our love for each other. We usually massage by candle light and then let the evening carry us away. - Gabrielle
♥ Write him/her a fairytale involving the two of you, and draw pictures of all the characters in the story, including exes, and maybe even furure children etc. and paste it in a beautifully wrapped up scrapped book. Who doesn't like a once upon a time tale! - Rosh
♥ Make a journal of yourself. Use 20 different photographs, under each one write a funny note, to make your partner laugh. - Stanley
♥ Get a fish tank with two gold fish. In the back where the scenary goes, cut out a heart and write "You're the only fish in the sea." It works like a charm. - Anna
♥ My husband works out of town, so I usually pack his lunch and inside the foiled wrapped meal, I write little love notes. It makes his day! - Angelmarie Alaniz
♥ Get a beautiful flower, pick the petals of the flower then stick them with a glue in the shape of the words "I LOVE YOU" on a red paper. - Rebaz
♥ Pack a wonderful picnic dinner. But take a few extras. Candles, wine glasses, (favorite sparkling) AND 2 nice warm blankets, music box and your favorite music cd. Pick him/her unexpectantly from work. Don't give any clues. Drive them to the nearest beach or secluded park. Lay your blanket out, set up all the goodies. Dinner and music on 1 blanket and use the 2nd for whatever happens next! (It's really nice if you can prepare the dinner blanket befor arrival. Maybe a friend will help) - Andrea
♥ On Christmas/birthday or any special occasion, put a bow on your head, hold mistle toe over your head (Christmas) and wrap yourself with a bow.. garunteed to make him smile. - Ellie
♥ What I do is kiss my mate goodbye in the morning as he leaves for work. During the day (between going and coming from work), I will call him and leave him either a seductive message if he is not available, or if he says hello, I would whisper something like "I wish I could be biting on your bottom lip right now-grrr" or "garters -Mmmmm" or "I can't wait to feel you caress my body-seductively moan." Just one small line and then hang up. I don't say it's me nor do I say goodbye-just a seductive line and then hang up. Believe me-when he comes through that not only have you aroused him, but also yourself, and that welcome home kiss becomes a long seductive kiss with arms wrapped around you. Take it from there. Good Luck. - Linda
♥ Go to bed earlier than usual, so you have extra time - just to talk, spoon, snuggle. - Zeda
♥ For the males: when you kiss your date goodbye grab their hand from their side gently, and kiss their hand gently and grab the other hand to bring her into your arms. Enjoy the long embrace! - Amanda
♥ Don't ever get so busy that you forget to spend some quality "cuddle" time. Sit together on the couch and talk about your dreams and your realtionship. Sneak in little kisses here and there. The cheek, the nose (eskimo kisses are great), the ear(s), and the neck. While you kiss their cheek, whisper "Ilove you" in their ear. - Amanda
♥ COMPLIMENT your loved one everyday!
If you think he/she is Sexy, Amazing, Etc., Let him/her know.
Use your imagination, get creative but TELL him/her verbally atleast once a day as well as showing him/her.
It's the little things that are priceless & can save/build relationships!
It will keep him/her focused on you, After all, If you don't tell him/her someone else will!!! - ItzAllGood
♥ You and your partner get pagers, that nobody else has the number to. Through-out the day, send your signifigant other sexy, erotic or very loving messages. (Maybe something like what you want to do to them when they get home) EX: Start stretchin'!!! This will make them smile, turn them on, and let them know that you are thinking of them. Everyone will wonder why you are smiling all day long. Trust me- it works. - Cindy
♥ Very sweet marriage proposal: Tell your girlfriend/boyfriend you've learned a new trick, and ask for their hand. Pretend to read their palm, tracing your finger along the lines in her/his hand. Say something like "I see two lives changing... I see a party... I see you marrying me." Very, very sweet! - Liz
♥ Design a scrap book filled with special things for your lover. in the scrap book place things that are important to you or to both of you. Then give it to them on a very special day or when ever you want. - Gene
♥ Nothing can be more romantic than a big delicious Chocolate, Whip Cream Covered Sundae, sprinkled with nuts. - Gene
♥ Keep telling your mate how you feel everyday then surprise them with something they would really like. Hopefully you will get something you really like :) - Larry
♥ Take two dozen roses and pull all the petals off... spread them on a thick, silky comforter on the floor,light candles and put on some soft music, then let the romance begin. - Pat
♥ Ever have trouble getting your partner to listen to you when you come home from work? Try this: Instead of the usual peck on the cheek, grab your lover and give him or her a long, lusty smooch. Tell them how much you missed them
today. Then spend five or ten minutes telling your partner what went on in
your day. Believe me, you'll have their attention. - Belle
♥ When was the last time you held hands? Many couples don't hold hands like they did when their romance was fresh and new. The next time you're in public with your mate, reach for her/his hand. Though it is a small gesture, you may be surprised with the big response it may bring. - Belle
♥ Make a path of rose petals and chocalate kisses leading to his/her bedroom. Around the bed leave red a white roses with the stems facing in and on the bed put a note that says "I kiss the ground you walk on." (Remember, you made a path of chocalate kisses) Have a tape recorder on the bed playing your favorite song for him/her. And then take it from there. - Jacob
♥ Before your partner gets home, decorate your room
with candles, anything that gets you in that ~MOOD~
Then right before you get into bed start a stripper dance! - Jacob
♥ Take colored construction paper, cut out into heart shapes, write down reasons you love him/her, place them into balloons and blow them up. Surprise him/her with the balloons left in the apt. Leave a note with instructions to pop them and read what's inside. - Kimberly
♥ Have an evening picnic in favorite spot. Take some candles in a cup so the wind won't disturb the flame. Drink some wine and watch the stars. This is very romantic for both parties involved. - Klara
♥ Create a path with candles on both sides leading to the bedroom. When you get there have strawberries with sugar and water sprinkled over them. Feed them to your mate, then give him/her a nice massage. Who knows how the evening could end up. - Katie
♥ Sometimes the little things can ignite the spark. When the reality of life is keeping you busy, take a minute to pick up the phone and call to let your partner know you miss them and just how much you love them. - Belle
♥ Get 2 dozen roses, take the leaves off one dozen. Stream them out in a path to where you want her to go, take the other dozen and put them on her pillow. You can figure out the rest from here. - David
♥ Revisit your childhood and act like a kid again. Stay home and play a game of twister and eat hot fudge sundaes. Play truth or dare or Simon says. You can pick your favorite games to play. Just be sure they're fun for both of you. - Belle
♥ Plan to meet your lover in a restaurant or bar. When you get there, act as if you two have never met and let the role playing begin. Hopefully, your lover will kiss on the first date! - Dionne
♥ Turn your bedroom into an exotic love nest then guide your partner to
it and make love to them. Ideas: a scarf over the lamp (make sure it
can't get too hot and burn or melt), a favorite scent on the light bulb,
red light bulb to make them and the room look sexy, burn candles,
play music, etc. - Belle
♥ Give her eleven real roses and one fake one, and tell her you'll love her until the last one dies. - Josh Brees
♥ Send your partner a note saying to meet you at a certain place. When he/she gets there, have a clue to the next place to go and so on and so on. Have people at these places help you to make it all work out. At the end when he/she finds you, have something very special for your partner. I have done this before. Not only is it fun, but well worth it in the end. - Christine
♥ Write loving or erotic notes to your partner. Hide them in spote where only your partner will find them. Keep them wondering when or where they'll find another note. - Belle
♥ Leave a note written in lipstick on the bathroom mirror, or in the shower, along w/ a kiss. - Natalie
♥ If you are sleeping at each other apartments, leave something personal so he will know that you're coming back! It works for me! - Ivanka
♥ When my boyfriend moved away and we had planned a long awaited visit. I got this crazy idea to drive him crazy. 4 weeks before I arrived, I would send him a different package. The first week I sent a bottle of chocolate syrup. The second week it was a jar of marchino cherries. The 3 week it was a package of nuts and the fourth and final was a box of Dream whip. Needless to say he was dying of curiosity when I got off the plane. I just batted my big brown eyes and replied "I thought sharing an ice cream sundae, would be a great way to spend our first night together after not seeing each other for 10 weeks." BOY, did we have fun !!! - Kathi
♥ An online date:
Take your cyber date to a party in a chatroom with people you know. Afterwards the two of you spend time on IM talking as you both listen to the same romantic music.If you send your date a romantic card from AdoringYou.com. You'll both feel so close, especially if your date gets it when a great song is playing. *this idea is for people who can't meet.* - Arnie
♥ Write sexy writings on email everyday to read, roleplay as a fantasy lovers. - Debby
♥ Kiss your mate when they are in the middle of a sentence. - Amber
♥ Write a loving, sexy note and leave it in a place where only your mate will find it. - Kara
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